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At Debt’s Door

Quarantine’s been weighing on me, and I’ve been making a lot of unnecessary purchases. I know I need to stop wasting money, but I just keep ordering thing after thing.

Risa's Astrology

Mercury Retrograde — Inner Direction

Mercury, the planet that clarifies thinking, observing, deciding and making intelligent choices, etc. turned retrograde on Tuesday (Oct. 13) in Scorpio (sign of the Nine Tests & the call to

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Heavy Mental

I’m a woman who recently stopped talking with a guy I’d been seeing because, frankly, I didn’t find him intelligent enough. He is a good guy, but just a little

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Dress for success, with your mother-in-law

Q. My 32 year old daughter brought her new boyfriend over to meet me for the first time. I wasn’t prepared for his short, square build . . . or

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A color for all seasons

Q. Do people still not wear white in winter or is that now a thing of the past? A. The truth is that the age-old adage of “not wearing white

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Mercury Retrograde & Heartbeat of the Future

Libra and soon Scorpio are moving humanity swiftly towards the election (held in Scorpio, Nov. 3, with multiple retrogrades occurring!). Libra’s task each year is to help humanity choose between

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Coddle Herder

My boyfriend’s enabling of his failure-to-launch 26-year-old son is seeming like a deal breaker. Though his son’s very likable, he’s been fired from every job he’s had, including a well-paying

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What An Earl Wants and Ex to Grind

What An Earl Wants This new guy I’ve been dating said he wants to keep things casual. I’m bummed because I’ve caught some pretty intense feelings for him. Is it

Risa's Astrology

Saturn – Teacher, Guardian, Time-Keeper & Rule of Law

All the planets at one time or another turn retrograde (appearing to move backwards), creating an inward-focused time. At present, Mars, Uranus, Neptune Pluto and Chiron are retrograde. And soon

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Sock it to me

Q. In this day and age, how important is it that I wear matched socks? My wife seems to think that this is still important, not me, I literally grab,