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Alice In Wanderland

I follow you on Twitter, and I was disgusted to see your tweet about marriage, “No, humans aren’t naturally monogamous — which is why people say relationships ‘take work,’ while

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You Flooze, You Lose and Good Mourning!

You Flooze, You Lose I’m a married lesbian in my 50s. I blew up my happy marriage by having an affair with somebody I didn’t love and wasn’t even that

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Nose To The Groin Stone and Simper Fi

Nose To The Groin Stone I’m a woman, and I recently made a new professional connection — a man who’s excited about my work. We’re planning on doing a big

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Destiny’s Problem Child

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Charles (Darwin) In Charge

Q. I saw this gorgeous girl at the coffeehouse at the mall two months ago. It was totally love at first sight. I keep hanging out there hoping to see

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Relationships Take Work

Q. I’m a 35-year-old woman. I’m living with my boyfriend, who’s a freelance artist (talented but just getting started). We’ve been together for three years, and I am paying for

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Wedding Duress

One ring is all anyone can wear at one time I’ve been living with my high-school sweetheart (from 20 years ago) for two blissful years. However, he’s still married to

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Reign Of Terrier

Dogs train humans to meet their demands

I know humans are typically your subject, but this is a relationship question, so I hope you’ll consider answering it. I have a new puppy (an 8-pound terrier mutt). I

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Romancing The Grindstone

I’m a 32-year-old woman with a really intense job that I love. I work long hours every week, and I often work weekends, too — by choice. I don’t want

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While You Were Sweeping

My boyfriend unplugs my laptop when it’s charging and plugs the charger into his, despite knowing that I need my computer charged for work. This is actually part of a

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Pay Pal and Check, Mate!

An older male friend keeps paying for me — buying me meals and clothes. Am I making a mistake in accepting? I’ve repeatedly made clear that I have no romantic