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The Incredible Sulk and Mourning Wood

The Incredible Sulk I’m a married lesbian working on having another baby with my fab wife. My new best friend is an attractive straight girl who lives in another state.

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What to do, with the blue jacket

Q. My mother just passed to me a light blue jacket that was my father’s from about 8 years ago. Is this still appropriate to wear and is now the

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Dressing well, without the tie

Q. I am really glad that going without a tie has become so popular, especially for business. Our office is still somewhat on the formal side; we wear suits, blazers,

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Baptism By Liar and Done Juan

Baptism By Liar I was talking with this guy whom I’ve known for over six years who lives a plane ride away. It was late at night on a weekend,

Risa's Astrology

A Change of Seasons — Spring into Summer

We change seasons this week. Spring flows into summer Friday at 8:54 am (west coast time) as the Sun slips into Cancer and summer begins in the northern hemisphere. Summer

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The Heart Is A Clonely Hunter and Groundhug Day

The Heart Is A Clonely Hunter I’ve heard that we’re romantically attracted to people who look like us. Is that true? I don’t think any of my boyfriends have looked

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June Full Moon, Gemini Festival of Humanity & World Invocation Day

Sunday is Father’s Day. We recognize, praise and celebrate all fathers, including mothers fulfilling the role of fathers. Fathers are the masculine presence and principle in our world, radiating strength,

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Formal wedding do’s and don’ts

Q. Help, I need your advice quickly. I have my wedding in 3 weeks and, after looking at the formal wear on the news last week in London, I’m not

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Under Gemini – Speaking in Tongues

Sunday (June 9th) is Pentecost – fifty (pente) days after Easter and one of the most important festivals for the Aquarian Age. It is good to understand Pentecost in today’s

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The Pathogen Of Least Resistance

I live with my girlfriend, who’s really picky about how clean and tidy the house has to be. God forbid I put a bowl on the dish rack that isn’t