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Risa's Astrology

Festivals of Gratitude & Giving & Beginning Festivals of Light

The Sun took leave of Scorpio last Sunday (November 21) and entered Sagittarius, sign of silence, simplicity, good food, music and the tarot card of Temperance. Thanksgiving is this Thursday,

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Bark Ranger

I’m a divorced guy in my 40s using dating apps. I’m keenly aware of what I do and don’t want in a woman and make it clear in my profile.

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How to hide those Covid curves

Q. This past year when we were spending so much time at home, the kitchen was a huge draw. I’ve gained a few unwanted pounds and am not happy about it.

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The Taurus Lunar Eclipse

Notes on the upcoming Lunar Eclipse, Full Moon, Scorpio Solar Festival We have a full moon lunar eclipse this Friday, November 19. Lunar eclipses, when the moon is hidden (eclipsed,

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Leaping Sickness and Junk Male

Leaping Sickness I thought I was happily married. Recently, I found a cherry Chapstick in my husband’s coat pocket — a kind he’d never buy. He claimed he randomly grabbed

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Beard dyeing tips for the professional look

Q. For a 60-year-old, I am happy to have mostly dark hair on top of my head, but less pleased with my beard. My temples are definitely very gray, but the

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Fossil Fool?

My husband died of a heart attack at age 75. On his phone, I saw several unsettling texts from younger women, alluding to improper liaisons and asking for money. We

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Cooler weather brings different fashion choices

Q. I am coming into the office for the first winter after a promotion (which took place last winter during work-from-home). This means I am dressing at a more professional

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Unparalleled Times, On the Precipice of Light & Dark

In this Kali Yuga time, when the dark is allowed to be seen, we finds ourselves poised on the precipice of dark and light and participating in a great battle

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Con Juan and Uneven Steven

Con Juan Lately, women’s magazines keep mentioning “sociopaths.” What is a sociopath? From what I’ve read, it seems like both my exes were sociopaths. How do I avoid attracting others?