Advice
The Meaning of Black and White Attire isn’t Black and White
Q. I just got an invitation to a small New Year’s Eve party. It asks us to come in Black and White Attire. Does it necessarily mean formal or just
Rust Issues
My husband and I are in our 50s, married 25 years. I married for life, but I didn’t expect our initially happy marriage to turn into a dull housemates situation.
Venus Retrogrades – Review, Re-appraise, Re-assess & Repattern
Every two years, Venus retrogrades. This year, Venus is retrograde from December 19, 2021 to January 29, 2022. Venus retrograde is a time to assess and re-evaluate resources, money, values
Truth Ache
I spent an entire Sunday with a really cute guy I met through a dating app. We kissed a bit, and I stayed over at his place (though I said
Cuff links as a gift for a new adult
Q. My nephew is a senior in high school. I’d like to give him a Christmas gift that would help him transition into adulthood and would appreciate your thoughts on
Must the Belt Match the Shoes?
Q. When wearing a traditional navy blue blazer, gray flannel slacks, and cordovan shoes, what is the proper belt color, brown or black? Must the belt match the shoes? A.
Easy Rewriter and The Incredible Sulk
Easy Rewriter At a dinner, a woman asked how my husband and I met. He says he spotted me in the campus dining hall, deliberately bumped me and spilled my
Festivals of Gratitude & Giving & Beginning Festivals of Light
The Sun took leave of Scorpio last Sunday (November 21) and entered Sagittarius, sign of silence, simplicity, good food, music and the tarot card of Temperance. Thanksgiving is this Thursday,
Bark Ranger
I’m a divorced guy in my 40s using dating apps. I’m keenly aware of what I do and don’t want in a woman and make it clear in my profile.
How to hide those Covid curves
Q. This past year when we were spending so much time at home, the kitchen was a huge draw. I’ve gained a few unwanted pounds and am not happy about it.
