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Risa's Astrology

Jupiter — Lord of Kindness, Goodness & Benevolence

On October 10th, after a year in Libra, Jupiter (favorite planet of Sagittarius & Aquarius) entered the transforming and testing sign of Scorpio. Jupiter, in each sign for about a

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Autumn’s Circadian Rhythms

I have mentioned often in my columns, website and FB about circadian rhythms. These are the rhythms of light and dark, Sun and moon, the seasonal rhythms, new and full

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Pay Pal and Check, Mate!

An older male friend keeps paying for me — buying me meals and clothes. Am I making a mistake in accepting? I’ve repeatedly made clear that I have no romantic

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Sparks And Recreation

Sex appeal matters in short term and longer I am a 32-year-old woman who has never been in a relationship with a man I’m actually attracted to. The men I’ve

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Autumn’s Dosha (energy, rhythm)

Autumn (known as “midnight” in esoteric sciences; winter solstice is the “dawn”) is a season of transition, between summer’s golden green and winter’s bare darkness. In trees and shrubs, we

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Footing The Evolutionary Bill

Finances confusing when paired with search for provider I’ve been dating this girl for just over a month, and she never offers to pay for anything. I was OK with

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Risa’s Horoscopes

ARIES: Something appears, is seen, recognized, brought to balance and creates an interlude in your relationship(s). Perhaps you identify how to have true Right Relations with those who love you.

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International Peace Day, Rosh Hashannah, Fall Equinox

So many festivals this week. Wednesday (east coast) is Virgo new moon just after midnight. In the evening, at sunset, Rosh Hashanah (Jewish New Year) begins. Thursday is the UN

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Ex-BF Wants To Be BFF

True love might become friendship … or not My boyfriend — who dumped me — says he wants to be friends (talk to me, see me sometimes), but I’m not

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When No Means No

Men don’t hear rejection unless women speak plainly This annoying guy at my gym keeps asking me out. I’m always polite, saying, “Would love to, but sorry, I’m really busy.”