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Smells Like Quarantine Spirit I’m a 41-year-old married lesbian. My wife and I used to work from home together. She recently got an important job, and she’s now gone all

Risa's Astrology

Lammas – Feast of First Fruits, a Harvest Festival

Lammas, (Old English, for “lamb”, & later “loaf” as in “bread”) celebrates the first grain harvests. Observed August 1stin the northern hemisphere, we can extend the festival all week. Lammas

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Why are there lots of bridal magazines but no magazines for grooms? What does that imply? —A Male Consider men’s general lack of interest in wedding planning. Of course, if

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Are Tab Collared Shirts Still Fab

Q. I just came across a shirt from five years back with a snap collar (I think you call it “tab”). Can I still wear it? I haven’t seen anyone else

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Seize The Meh and Give Pizza A Chance

Seize The Meh I’m a 31-year-old guy who got really hurt after a relationship ended a few years back. Now I just don’t date women whom I’ll ever really care

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A Long Retrograde Season & Time of Remembering

In this last week of July, with Sun in Leo (I am by what I create), humanity is experiencing seven retrogrades – Mercury (communication, thinking), Mars (action), Saturn (restructuring), Neptune

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Seeking Selections for Seersuckers

Q. You wrote about seersucker suits a few weeks back and I would like to wear less heavy fabric in the summer, but don’t think I would be comfortable in

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Buddha Heat and In The Mood For Shrug

Buddha Heat My husband and I are lucky — like that couple in their 70s you wrote about — to have a satisfying sex life after 23 years together. Still,

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Cancer — Hiding Away Under Its Shell, Half on Earth, Half in Water

Cancer – Hiding Away Under Its Shell, Half on Earth, Half in Water. This is our last week of the sign of the scarab (Cancer) before Leo Sun begins (Sunday

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The long and the short of short pants

Q. What is the deal with these new high-water pants or even capris on men . . . and with no socks?  Is this really acceptable weekend wear? I have