Advice
Cuff links as a gift for a new adult
Q. My nephew is a senior in high school. I’d like to give him a Christmas gift that would help him transition into adulthood and would appreciate your thoughts on
Must the Belt Match the Shoes?
Q. When wearing a traditional navy blue blazer, gray flannel slacks, and cordovan shoes, what is the proper belt color, brown or black? Must the belt match the shoes? A.
Easy Rewriter and The Incredible Sulk
Easy Rewriter At a dinner, a woman asked how my husband and I met. He says he spotted me in the campus dining hall, deliberately bumped me and spilled my
Festivals of Gratitude & Giving & Beginning Festivals of Light
The Sun took leave of Scorpio last Sunday (November 21) and entered Sagittarius, sign of silence, simplicity, good food, music and the tarot card of Temperance. Thanksgiving is this Thursday,
Bark Ranger
I’m a divorced guy in my 40s using dating apps. I’m keenly aware of what I do and don’t want in a woman and make it clear in my profile.
How to hide those Covid curves
Q. This past year when we were spending so much time at home, the kitchen was a huge draw. I’ve gained a few unwanted pounds and am not happy about it.
The Taurus Lunar Eclipse
Notes on the upcoming Lunar Eclipse, Full Moon, Scorpio Solar Festival We have a full moon lunar eclipse this Friday, November 19. Lunar eclipses, when the moon is hidden (eclipsed,
Leaping Sickness and Junk Male
Leaping Sickness I thought I was happily married. Recently, I found a cherry Chapstick in my husband’s coat pocket — a kind he’d never buy. He claimed he randomly grabbed
Beard dyeing tips for the professional look
Q. For a 60-year-old, I am happy to have mostly dark hair on top of my head, but less pleased with my beard. My temples are definitely very gray, but the
Fossil Fool?
My husband died of a heart attack at age 75. On his phone, I saw several unsettling texts from younger women, alluding to improper liaisons and asking for money. We
