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They’ve gone to plaid

Q. My wife got me some plaid shirts. What ties go with them? A. Not every plaid shirt can (or, at least, should) be worn with a tie, but there

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Sagittarius – a Beam of Directed Focused Light

Every month the light distributed to Earth from each sign (Spiritual Hierarchies) is different, holding different tasks for the humanity’s evolution. Each sign also describes the connection between the Soul

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For Whom The Sleigh Bells Toll and Crushin’ Roulette

For Whom The Sleigh Bells Toll I get very lonely around the holidays. My family is just my parents, and they’re far away. I don’t have a boyfriend right now.

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Tied in knots

Q. My new business will require me to wear a tie which I haven’t done in over a decade. Which one is really the appropriate tie and knot today? I don’t

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Thanksgiving – a Mercury Retro/Full Moon/Void-of-Course Day!

Sun enters Sagittarius Thursday, which is also Thanksgiving and at the end of the day, a full moon (1-degree Sagittarius around midnight). Not only are we in a Mercury retrograde

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Teetotally Awesome and Her Beta Half

Teetotally Awesome I’m a recovering addict, five years sober. My ex-boyfriend was a “normie” (12-step slang for someone who hasn’t had addiction issues), and there were definitely things he just

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A Return Journey — Mercury retrograde

As Venus becomes stationary direct, Friday (Nov. 16), Mercury becomes stationary retrograde. An interesting intersection of planetary movements. Although soon in direct motion, Venus will remain in her retrograde shadow

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Best Man For The Sob and Denial Of Cervix

Woe Is Meow I lost over 100 pounds. I’m really proud of my myself and my new body, so I post pix on Instagram. Disturbingly, I’ve got a few haters

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Dressing for a blind date

Q. This may be a strange question, but what is a safe look for a first date?  I am a groomsman at a college friend’s wedding next month in Memphis,

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Scorpio – Moments of Crisis & Nine Tests

Scorpio is a most interesting sign, it is also the most mysterious. Before we enter Capricorn, Scorpio offers us points of crisis & moments of reorientation, two deeply important functions