Advice
Beginnings Are Fragile Things
Welcome to our strange and brave new world, 2021, everyone. We have a dreamy start to the new year as Mercury joins Neptune on the first day of 2021. Many
Couching Tiger and Cujo’s Diner
Couching Tiger I’m a woman in my late 20s in a happy, committed relationship. I had the idea of going to a therapist with my boyfriend so we can learn
Blazer vs. Sport Coats
Q. What trousers should I wear with patterned black, blue, and brown blazers? I know you say not to wear blazers with the same color pants because they look like
Meet Joe Slack
My boyfriend does everything halfway, save for playing video games and smoking weed. He does sloppy work at his job, just the minimum to get by, and is always late
Heaven & Nature Sing
From the very night of time, the time wherein the Sun moves northward again has been regarded as a festival season; for thousands of years it has been associated with
Shoes speak louder than words
Q. I usually add to my husband’s tie collection at the holidays, but this year he asked for shoes. Specifically, he wants a pair of Allen Edmonds that his brother
The New Bethlehem Star – Jupiter/Saturn in Aquarius
Everyone’s talking and writing about it. The Aquarian Age. The great star event. The Jupiter/Saturn Great conjunction in Aquarius. The Christmas Star. The Bethlehem Star. The Aquarian Age, the new
Drop Dud, Gorgeous and Fate Club
Drop Dud, Gorgeous I typically avoid conflict to keep from having ugly conversations. I’m in an unhappy relationship, and it’s clearly not fixable. I always rely on the other person
Why the necktie?
Q. Why do I need to wear a necktie? This seems like an idea that was born and should have died last century! A. A necktie adds a certain seriousness
Dress for success
Q. My husband has an executive interview coming up for the position of president in a new company. In the past he moved his way up in an informal setting,
