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Silence Of The Ma’ams

My girlfriends and I were out for drinks. One was talking about her bad day at work and how she found herself apologizing to her boss (though she wasn’t at

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Easy nail cleaning without a manicure

Q. I have a winter-related question. With the cold weather I have been using my fireplace, and inevitably my hands are covered with soot which I have a great deal of

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How Do I Shove Thee? & Pouter Struggle

How Do I Shove Thee? I’m a 31-year-old gay man. I have these intrusive lusty thoughts about my ex, like daily. I’m extremely physically attracted to him, but we just

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The Versatile Sweater Requires Special Care

Q. Working from home, I’m wearing sweaters nearly every day as it is getting colder. I have a mix of ones I’ve owned for years and newer ones which are

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Sun Enters Aquarius, Nodes Shift — The Narrative Changes

Mercury and Venus are still retrograde. Under retrogrades, it is a good time to study. Below is a beginning study of two aspects in astrology that are very important. These

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Buddy Odor

I’m a woman in my mid-20s. In the last year, I’ve noticed that a number of my core friends have begun to exhibit traits and values that I don’t really

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Men’s Care: How to Achieve a Close Shave

Q. Hi Lois, I am hoping you can help. My son is in his early 20’s and clearly has always had trouble with razor burn and bumps.  He’s not one

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Deep Reflections — Venus & Mercury Retrograde

In the midst of Venus retrograde (till January 29th), Mercury, on Friday, also turns retrograde (at 10 degrees Aquarius) until February 3rd. Aquarius is the sign of the new era,

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May The Divorce Be With You and The Flirt Locker

May The Divorce Be With You My apartment building has paper-thin walls, and I overhear a lot of what goes on between the couple next door. The man makes constant

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Don’t overlook shoes when picking an outfit

Q. My husband does not seem to understand that wearing a pair of dress shoes with jeans and a pullover is not dressed-up for a night out and that wearing